Giving unwed mothers a chance for a future
She gave birth to her daughter in December, and it looked as though her educational career was over.
Then the National Human Rights Commission stepped in, and ordered the school to re-enroll the teenager.
Now she’s graduated and has entered college - and the commission has taken steps to ensure that what almost happened to her doesn’t happen again.
On March 16, the commission announced that forcing pregnant students to drop out from school discriminates against their human rights to an education.
For Han Sang-soon, the director of Aeranwon, a Presbyterian church institution that runs a facility for unmarried pregnant women and their children in Seodaemun District, western Seoul, the decision meant more than Kim’s future. It was a step to breaking down the barriers that face unwed mothers.
Han has been involved in advocating rights for unwed pregnant women in Korea for 28 years. She stressed that unwed pregnant teenagers can stand on their own feet only when they complete their education and get a job.
“Only self-reliance can cut the vicious cycle in which unwed pregnant teenagers get pregnant again after they give birth,” Han said. “If they can’t stand on their own feet, their children grow up in dire straits.”
When Han first approached the school to ask that Kim be re-enrolled, the teachers were furious and strongly opposed the idea, Han recalled.
“They said, ‘How can we possibly accept a pregnant student in the school?’” Han said. “I learned through the experience that’s why teenagers decide drop out when they get pregnant. Many unwed pregnant teenagers who come to Aeranwon are school dropouts because they say in order to not get kicked out, quitting is the only option. It’s heartbreaking.”
Han said there’s a prevalent misunderstanding about unwed pregnant teenagers.
“Many people assume unwed pregnant teenagers can’t study well because they need to look after their child,” Han said. “But to the contrary, many of them study harder because they have motivation. They think and act maturer because they know that to raise their child, they have to have a decent academic background to get a job. Many of them want to study more because they don’t ever want to have to tell their child that they’re a middle-school dropout.”
Han’s center originally couldn’t afford academic education, and centered instead on providing vocational training for the young women. But many failed to carve out a stable living because their lack of education disqualified them from the jobs they wanted.
“Many ended up getting labor-intensive work,” Han said. “Many of them ended up quitting because they were not only physically exhausted, but also unhappy with their job.”
After years of trial and error, Aeranwon first helped unwed pregnant teenagers complete high school and then obtain vocational skills. Many of her wards have become nurses, computer graphic designers, social workers and tax administrative workers.
“Providing educational opportunities to unwed pregnant teenagers is necessary,” she said. “It will enable them to get decent jobs, and that prevents them from passing on poverty to the next generation.”
By Koo Hui-lyung [email@example.com]
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