Old Hangeul letters shed light on early Joseon marriages
They had a lot to ask about.
Are the servants acting obedient and staying away from trouble? How was the child’s first birthday party and what did he pick in doljabi [where the child is supposed to choose from an array of items like cash, pens and thread, each symbolizing wealth, intelligence and longevity]?
Being from noble families, they usually wrote in Chinese characters with their colleagues, but they wrote in Hangeul - the Korean alphabet - to their wives, who were discouraged from learning Chinese characters in the male-dominated society.
With recent news of a restoration of a Hangeul letter that Na Sin-geol (estimated to have lived between the mid-15th century and early 16th century) wrote to his wife of the Sinchang Maeng clan, Hangeul letters exchanged between the husbands and wives of the Joseon time are emerging under a clearer light.
The letter by Na - thought to be written in the early 16th century - is the oldest Hangeul letter to be found in Korea, providing some important clues as to how the people lived, thought, spoke and loved during that time. Before that, a letter written in 1555 was the oldest Hangeul document on record.
Hangeul was created in 1443 and Hangeul letters written between then and the 19th century amount to around 2,500. Of them, about 1,000 are ones exchanged between husbands and wives.
Along with Na’s letter, two other letters - one written by the wife of Lee Eung-tae (1556-86) and another by Gwak Ju (1569-1617) - have also awed historians for the sweet, loving words exchanged between the husbands and wives in Confucian, conservative Joseon society where gender inequality was evident and candid expression of affection between men and women was not encouraged.
Na worked as a soldier, and he lamented in his letter how he had been away from home too long. “I wanted to go home and see everyone - my mother and our baby, but I couldn’t. It is very regrettable and sad,” he wrote. He added that he was sending face powder for his wife - a very precious item of the time imported from abroad - and tells her to stay well and healthy with his mother and their baby.
“You can tell from these letters that the men of Joseon aristocrats treated their wives with much courtesy. They were devoted and kind,” said Baek Du-hyeon, professor of Korean language and literature at Kyungpook National University.
Also, in the letter written by the wife of Lee Eung-tae, she wholeheartedly grieves the untimely death of her husband. “I just cannot live without you. I just want to go to you,” she wrote. Please look at this letter and tell me in detail in my dreams. [...] Look closely and talk to me.”
The letters also indicate that the women clearly had the decision making power in most of household affairs.
“Many of the letters are concerned with care of the servants and farm work. And they show how it was not unusual for the wives to handle all the household matters,” said Bae Yeong-hwan, professor of Korean language and literature at Seowon University who translated Na’s Hangeul letter.
Also interesting is the pronoun they used to refer to each other: janae, an archaic form of the modern jane, which means “you” in Korean.
“The husbands and wives of Korea between the 16th and 17th centuries both called each other ‘you,’” said Professor Hwang Mun-hwan of the Academy of Korean Studies. He added that other signs in the linguistics indicate equal status within couples. Hwang studied more than 700 Hangeul letters of the times.
He also notes how manura - a Korean word referring to wives but with a slightly condescending connotation - used to be the most honorary term for wives during the Joseon era. “Manura is an evolved version of manora - which was a title for the wives of the royal court,” Hwang said, referring to some letters from the royal families.
By Lee Yeong-hee, Kim Hyung-eun [firstname.lastname@example.org]