Koreans lack what Eskimos have
A point of reference may determine one’s happiness. A bronze medalist is said to be happier than a silver medalist. Last year, researchers at Northwestern University in Illinois graded the happiness of silver and bronze medalists by analyzing their facial expressions. The bronze medal winners received 7.1 out of 10 points on their happiness index. However, the silver medalists had only 4.8 points.
Conditions that determine happiness include more than just money, health and religion. Professor Ed Diener of the University of Illinois is known for his work in the psychology of happiness. In his paper “Very Happy People,” he argued that human relationships were key to happiness. He surveyed 222 people and found that the happiest people spent little time alone and invested a great amount of time meeting people and maintaining relationships.
The Korean Neuropsychiatric Association and Gallup Korea asked 1,006 people in Korea to rate their happiness. The average was 68.1 points, one point lower than a similar survey in 2006.
The Gallup Organization in the U,S. conducted a global happiness survey. It was no surprise that Korea ranked a disappointing 56th place among 115 countries. Koreans have hard lives. In their teens, they are stressed to get into good colleges. In their 20s, getting a job is no easy feat. In their 30s and 40s, Koreans struggle through the longest workdays in the world. In their 50s, they feel lonely and their health deteriorates. When Professor Diener visited Korea last year to attend a conference, he said that Koreans need to be happier.
We may want to do some soul-searching to appreciate the small things in life. After all, happiness comes from little discoveries made along the path of life, not from any of its end points.
*The writer is an editorial writer of the JoongAng Ilbo.
By Kim Nam-joong