Can't Get Hyo(효) Out of My Head [Photo Essay Contest]
The Korea JoongAng Daily hosted its first photo essay contest for elementary, middle and high school students on the theme: “Promote the beauty of Korea to foreign countries." The contest ran from October to November. Photos containing scenes of traditional culture, family love, places to see and tasty treats in Korea were submitted for the contest.
Daniel Kim from Korea International School won the grand prize in the elementary school category for this photo essay.
“Gampa, yoo shood watch out for the cawrs.” I said to my grandfather when I was about three years old. He was surprised because I had been able to speak so early on, and thought I was cute when I said that. Since then, he and I had grown closer together, as we knew we had a special bond after I wanted him to be extra safe.
A few months ago, there was a special moment with just my grandpa and me. My mom, caught up with work, suggested we have lunch together. And she wanted her dad to enjoy something he never did. So, we went to a fancy buffet, just the two of us. This experience turned out to be quite an adventure. He wasn’t quite sure how to navigate the whole buffet setup. So, I stepped in, handed him a plate, and guided him through all the different foods - beef, cereal, mashed potatoes, sausages, ham, rice, you name it. The excitement in his eyes mirrored my own as he picked what he wanted. It was an unusual yet incredibly loving way for us to strengthen our bond - just by sharing a meal. He showed his affection by polishing off his plate, and I showed mine by being his buffet guide. Looking back, I realized I had unknowingly practiced “효“(Hyo), capturing the moment in a photo. You can see the happiness on both our faces, just enjoying the simple joy of being together.
Filial piety, also known as Hyo, has long been regarded as one of Korea’s most essential values and deeply rooted in Korean culture. It's a deep sense of duty and responsibility younger ones owe their parents. Take me, for example — I make it a habit to bow my head toward my grandparents or teachers as a sign of courtesy, much like how people in Western culture, people might casually give a friendly handshake or a hug. However, Hyo is more than just showing respect; it’s like a big bundle of value. It means showing respect and loyalty to your parents and older folks. It also counts taking care of your parents when they get older. While it might come off as a bit rule-oriented and different when viewed through a Western cultural lens, I, as a Korean-American attending an American school, personally appreciate the concept of Hyo. It provided a unique opportunity for both me and my Grandpa to spend quality time together, fostering a deeper connection between us.
Moreover, the beauty of Hyo is profound. It extends beyond the surface of respect; it’s a timeless cultural treasure that adds richness to our lives. For instance, the increasing number of foreigners choosing experiences such as temple stays in Korea. These immersive programs offer a firsthand chance to engage with and learn Hyo, underlining its universal appeal. The rise in international participation signifies that Hyo holds significance not just within Korean society but also on a global scale. As individuals from various backgrounds seek to comprehend and embrace the principles of Hyo, it illustrates that its beauty is distinctive to Korea while being universally valued.
Hyo still plays a significant role in shaping social relationships and values in our society, and will enhance the bond and love between the generations. I’m convinced that practicing Hyo isn’t about being a good kid; it’s about growing into a better person by learning things like patience, humility, and compassion; it’s a mixture of showing love to your family and becoming a better you.
By Daniel Kim, Korea International School
with the Korea JoongAng Daily
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